Post by Hammer on Feb 3, 2003 7:31:30 GMT
I have a question I am a relatively young coachâ?¦I took a new job for this past season moving up 2 levelsâ?¦The problem I have is thisâ?¦My philosophies and beliefs are extremely different than the coach I work for I was mislead in considering this job and have notified him that I will not returnâ?¦I love coaching very much it is all I ever wanted to do but I had rather never coach again than work for this manâ?¦He has blamed and accused me of several things and as I know they are two sides to every story I swear none of them are trueâ?¦he is very insecure the other coaches on staff he had brought in with him except one and they honestly are nothing more than yes menâ?¦my question is basically thisâ?¦he has given me several bad references since I have started looking and said some things that have gotten back to me, he knows every coach it seems (I have a great reference from my old coach who is a member of many of the state coach association boards and very well liked and respected)â?¦we meet earlier and he wanted to make sure we left here on good terms with no bad feelings but now he is blasting me behind my backâ?¦How do I handle this I am afraid that I will lose my temper if I go back to confront him I addressed all my feelings in our first meeting in a calm and controlled manor do I just let it roll as water off a ducks back and be a bigger man leaving things as they were discussed in our original meeting?
