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Post by coachkmullprovchargers on Jul 20, 2007 4:23:08 GMT
This is our first year and we have children from 6 to 14 years old.We are going to be a zero tolerance team.Could someone email me a contract of what they use for players and parents for what a team expects from the parents and players so i can have some ideas to make mine up from.My email is coach_kmull_prov_chargers@yahoo.com
Post by coachkmullprovchargers on Jul 21, 2007 4:09:31 GMT
Well i was with a team last year and these are things i will call zero tolerance that we won't allow.
1 No fighting between players or coaches.
2No parents on the pratice feild during pratice trying to tell coaches what to do.
3Children making fun or ganging up on other children.
4 Coaches having meetings behind the head coaches back to talk about coaches.
5 Coaches who will be involved at all levels for fundraising and recruiting children.
6 coaches who will not talk down to children by calling them names or blaming them for a loss.
7 Coaches will not single out a single child during a game by saying it is his fault for a team losing.
8 Coaches who smoke on the pratice feild
9Coaches grabing a child or threatining to call their parent because the child as a tool to get the child to do whatever the coach wanted.
These are things i saw last year and experienced last year which i did not like at all.
I guess it depends on what you face that you will not allow no matter what.
Coach, just my humble opinion, but you are missing out on a wonderful opprotunity to teach your boys. Forget zero tolerance. So many of the boys don't have daddies or role models. ya heard the old saying, "don't be THAT guy"? In this situation, be THAT guy. Be the role modle, the daddy. They will love you for it. Really, I mean LOVE, not like, not just respect but LOVE.
I can see why you feel the need for a contract. Our league has a coaches code of conduct which deals with some of those issues that each coach in the league must sign. In addition I meet with my staff and make sure they understand the ground rules which cover the coach-related items you mentioned. Name calling a kid is completely uncalled for, and I have to admit if I ever heard a coach tell a kid he is responsible for a loss I'd fire him on the spot. One play is just one play in the grand scheme of things and the same kid that might be singled out might have made several other plays that gave you a chance to win.
As to the parents, I have a parent meeting with them. It is announced a few days ahead of time and I ask them all to be there. In that meeting I cover my philosophy, what we're trying to teach the boys beyond the X's and O's, how I handle playing time, and my expectations of them. I then offer to talk with them any time before or after practice and give them my phone number so they can reach me at any other time if they feel the need.
For the kids, there is a philosophy that all players are to be treated exactly the same and if you adopt the zero tolerance approach that is where you will likely have to be. I don't agree with that philosophy - I've had kids that if I took a hard line on them, I'd lose them, and others that crave it, some kids if you yell at them it gets them in gear and others it drives away. When it comes to team rules, yes, they are all applied the same but it's the in between stuff where it gets tricky. A zero tolerance approach will take your options away when it comes to dealing with those gray area situations. I think Coach Bruce has it right, if you treat them as your kid and go from there you'll be in good, if not great, shape.
"The quality of a man's life is in direct proportion to his pursuit of excellence." - Vince Lombardi
Post by coachkmullprovchargers on Jul 30, 2007 6:40:18 GMT
I was asking as this was something coaches have experienced with inner city kids before.I myself found that when i talk to the children and show i am not another authority figure things work.I ask the children how is school and try to show i am someone who is there for them.I found if i build a connection with the child the child works for me and does not give me problems.
true..but they NEED an authority figure. They may not show you outwardly but I work with children who are in trouble with the law. They CRAVE authority. They just want it presented respectfully but firmly so that they do not lose face with their boys.
I understand where you're coming from Coach. It's hard sometimes to know how to reach some kids. I think Coach Bruce is right, deep down inside they crave someone to tell them what to do and how to do it because they find it lacking in other areas of their lives. You have a special opportunity to show them how to make the transition from boys to men. Establishing that connection in the way you described is an essential part of the process and kudos to you for doing that!
One of the things you will run into is a representation on their part of indifference, or maybe even behavior edging on rebellious; it sounds like that is some of what you saw last year. Normal stuff for a kid of that age, accentuated even more if they haven't been getting positive direction at home. There is nothing we can do about that, nor is it our responsibility, but we can offer to them an example of how to be so that they can begin to figure out what they want to be. When you see that behavior find a way to reach that kid, that's when he needs your help the most. I wish I could tell you how to do that, but it's different for every kid. Some kids respond to your getting on their butt, but if it's screaming and hollering in my experience that's not an effective teaching method, especially with kids that don't want to lose face (as Coach Bruce mentioned). Most kids respond to you giving them more responsibility and demanding accountability to each other and as you mentioned when you establish some rapport with them.
If you can simply teach them the values of the game, things like it's not about me it's about team, self sacrifice is a necessary component of achievement, play in a manner that will allow you to look your teammates in the eye after a game and tell them with 100% confidence that you did everything you could do, if you can teach them that, you will have made a difference in their lives that goes way beyond stats or scores on a scoreboard. That is the real meaning of football - the X's and O's are fun, having happy fans after the game is cool, the challenge of leading a team is rewarding but in the end it's about passing along the values that provide a male the foundation for success in whatever they do in life. You won't reach them all, but you will reach more than you will ever know.
I wish you success with being that influence for them Coach, you are definitely on the right track.
"The quality of a man's life is in direct proportion to his pursuit of excellence." - Vince Lombardi